Satisfaction — What does it mean for us to have control over our feelings? Human beings often seek self-control through either attempting to limit or relieve the physical responses of their body (through drugs, exercise, etc.), or through repressing and ignoring their feelings. But these are actually just attempts to satisfy (or repress) our natural physical responses, which by itself, is temporary and ultimately futile (disappointing). The more fulfilling and lasting solution is for our soul to be satisfied and directed by a growing intimacy with God.

In this coaching exercise we will explore some thoughts related to how a Christian might pursue dealing with their feelings from a Kingdom perspective.

Coach: Ask your student to read out-loud the text on the left here and then ask them to tell you which parts of this makes sense and why, and if any parts do not seem right, and why.

(NOTE TO COACH: Remember, be careful NOT to correct or even comment on your student's answers, except to say "What else?" if their answer is too brief.)


To help you and your coach explore this more deeply and help you to transform your thinking in this area, we have designed several discussions and activities you can work through with your coach.

For discussion with your coach:
Here is the a question for your thought and discussion with your coach: (We encourage you to write down your answer to this discussion question before clicking the link to proceed.)

  • How do I control my feelings?


Coach: On the left here is a question for discussion. Ask your student to answer this question and then write their answer out for later reference in this session.

(NOTE TO COACH: Remember, be careful NOT to correct or even comment on your student's answers, except to say "What else?" if their answer is too brief.)



AFTER you’ve discussed the above question with you coach (we encourage you to write down your answers for later use), then click here to proceed.